I am sick and tired of this anything goes mentality. Basically, we don't have an audience. Among the cavalcade of pajama pants, tracksuits, nightgowns, painting rags, and ill-fitting sweatshirts that one encounters in the world's terminals and stations these days, the competently dressed. It appears to me, in my humble opinion, at least, that our society has given up apsiring and has accepted these debasements, and doesn't care about "keeping up appearances" at least for the sake of one's self respect. Better yet, look at photos of bands like the Who, moody blues, the small faces, and the Beatles in the mid 60s during the height of the mod movement. There's a big difference between getting ONE meaningful tattoo and inking your body up from head to toe. I hope this reply helps. Dressing bad is one thing but smelling like a dirty dogs bed. no excuse. I've copped a few comments about trying too hard and things like that which i just let wash over my head. I think it ridiculous when I see a woman who has an oversized derrier that she feels she can stuff into a pair of tight jeans. And from what I hear, slob nation is making its way into those social situations, too. 59 people were murdered in Las Vegas fairly recently by another deranged white male with no motive other than hatred. Yet, given enough time there may be a reaction to all this boorish behavior and sloppiness masquerading as fashion. I please myself. Theres the utter selfishness of it. No one has any problem showing their underwear or lack thereof. I just don't understand why some, if not many, lesbians choose to look obscene. Aaron Hernandez, the ex-Patriot that was on trial for murdering two people (and who killed himself after being found guilty) was covered with them, including sporting random ones on his neck. To me it's no different then saying you don't like a certain artist and their artwork. Having said that, I wholeheartedly agree with you; the absolute laziness and sloppiness of people (including, but not limited to, prospective employees) appalls me. Who designed such crap is beyond me. Spike Lee in a purple outfit and some presenter in a woman styled suit. I love to dress casually myself and it would be pretty ridiculous to don a dress and gloves to pick up milk and bread, like they did in the 1950s. The Canadians apparently take more pride in their appearance than we do. Sadly,so many women also do it too. )From my first office job in the mid-1980s up to 2000, I always had one suit in the cleaners, 2-3 "work suits" in my closet & 1-2 "good suits". These people are an eyesore and they're getting worse! Just my 2^2/3 cents worth. You are exactly right. When will a renaissance begin? Nowadays, everyone wears sweatpants like cranky children who insist on wearing their pajamas out in public. American guys hate slender pants, by the way -- they say this style looks "gay"; I say it looks way more flattering than baggy pants (though part of the reason the slim pant trend will never catch on here is because of men's weight issues, which is another blog post entirely.). If you want any confirmation as to how ugly things have gotten, aside from looking at who occupies the White House now, just go to the grocery store (Wal Mart) and see the modern day equivalent of a freak show in action. Its okay to be heavy now, even if that weight gain resulted from a bad diet. Every time I see some eejit wearing pants that are 10 sizes too big, waistband below their butt, flaunting their boxers to everyone--I want to give them a good paddling for being slobs and see them shamed by standing on a busy street corner wearing a big sign about being a slob in public (or something to that effect). Or dressing like "lesser beings" dress. Well, if everyone is tattoooed then they all look the same, which is to say they all look like shit together. I am a former French Foreign Legionnaire, born in Norway to Norse parents, but moved to the UK after serving 15 years as a legionnaire, and noticed that the poor self admin was apparent, not only in US civilians, but also its military while I was serving in Afghanistan. Nowadays, the same type of store lets the employees wear whatever they choose, with tattoos and/or piecings unhidden. "Why?" I asked. Why are so many people looking like this? Even wearing this which i don't think is overly flashy I stand out like a sore thumb in a decent size city amongst my age group and older ages. One wouldn't expect, say, a crisply ironed shirt or razor-sharp creases in a slob's clothing. The guys who showed up--many of whom were single--looked like they were about to go hiking or to the beach. For the record, I was born in the 1950s. So I definitely see some of the worst here, although I do try to stay out of Walmart if at all possible. At the end of our meal, the waitress brought back the little computer monitor to my table. It isn't realistic for me to try and don a suit that only an italian twink would be able to wear, even if I wanted to spend a bunch of money trying to do so. Whatever happened to wearing an appropriate tuxedo to formal events? ), I have seen too many men dressed inappropriately in fine restaurants and other venues that call for some professionalism: baseball caps (a huge no-no when worn indoors, guys--remember that scene from. Have you seen what celebs wear in public (when not posing for those magazines, of course) vs. how they used to dress when not filming a movie? Female athletes haven't. They never look good. I do; a little mans suit with shiny black shoes, a little fake kerchief, and a perfect coiffure. October 2008. The status marker . I notice those physical traits, too, but also the way he is dressed. Hi, I'm Pam - thanks for visiting Go Retro! Suits, ties, and dresses: Ah yes, the way people used to dress for summer BBQs. I went to a department store and wandered around browsing in the clothing section. I'm of the generation called "Millenials," which is a label that I dislike, since it seems to imply that my generation is lost and stupid, or at least that's how I perceive it. Not so Caroline Wozniacki and some others I'll go on to mention. The kids were better dressed than the two "adults". I believe it started somewhere in the 1990sI remember a scene in the movie "Clueless" where Alicia Silverstone's character Cher mentions how boys dress "nowadays": "So, okay. All I know is, I make twice the money I did in 1995 but feel about half as professional. Im a single man of 47. Sadly, theres so few places now where you wont be seen as ridiculously overdressed. Anyways, thanks for stopping by! Oscar Wilde once said, "You can never be overdressed or overeducated.". It's sad that people find flipping through Instagram more important than there own appearance. I love dark colors, and you could say my style is dark as well. Groups of people working side by side like work horses, but who don't connect and form a community. A clear picture of your soon-to-be debonair self is essential. It would be nice if the rest of us could comment on their attire but they still wouldn't care or sue for slander. Hi Anonymous, welcome and thank you for your comments! A leading question, but I believe that most people today dress less well than the generations before (myself guilty). People's fashion changes from state to state or even county to county. Sure, everybody thinks that because they live in the United States of Moronica, have tattoos, piercings or want to look as though they have been living in a homeless encampment (even if they really don't) that this is freedom of expression. Sorry for the rant, Pam. Even the way they dress casually is heads and tails above us. If people want to let their ugliness hang out in public, I suppose it's their choice. Some conservative commentators and celebrities began calling for a boycott of Bud Light after the beer was featured in a social media promotion by a transgender influencer, Dylan . You know,like they actually give a damn about themselves. .css-16c7pto-SnippetSignInLink{-webkit-text-decoration:underline;text-decoration:underline;cursor:pointer;}Sign In, Copyright 2023 Dow Jones & Company, Inc. All Rights Reserved. Even working class people (which I am) used to take pains to dress as best they could for special occasions, such as church or going out to dinner. I see a lot of people in stores that wear flip-flops (even in winter! Even when I search the internet for garments made from real wool with classic patterns, I am more and more at a loss to find what I want. I know this was kind of long but I wanted to get some of thoughts out their on the whole americans dressing like slobs issue. Clothes have gotten cheaper, tackier, and minimal in variety. 2 Feedbacks on "Why Americans Today Dress Like Slobs" Surellin. Yesterday, a colleague of mine was grappling with a . Bra less too. The people don't try to look their best because they live inside a marxist fever dream where everyone is their best buddy and everyone is so very equal. or just about anything. If I've used a photo, video, etc in one of my posts it means I really dig it! The whole bare legged crap with tattoos, scars, birth marks razor cuts, and my ever favorite, that spray on orange crap they use running down their legs! God forbid if i choose to wear a nice casual dress shirt and even worse if i tuck it in which in my opinion looks great if its well fitted.I can't help but feel like other people seem to have no respect for their appearance particularly the young males here who regularly wear singlets with enormous arm holes, baggy graphic t-shirts, board shorts and walk around bear footed or in cheap crappy shoes. The baffling popularity of reality TV shows like. Every damn time I go to a restaurant, there are numerous bozos who sit there with their idiotic caps on their hollow heads. Some women wear way too big/baggy/frumpy clothing as well. Clothes way to tight or to small. I see it all. Womena lot of womendress sloppily, too--but as a woman, I've noticed a few things about guys that have turned me off. Can we assume that the USA is a decadent nation that has given up trying to maintain what was once considered a decent standard in clothing and fashion representation? There was a young couple with a young child that i encountered in the elevator. People go out these days looking as if they've never spent more than $10 on an article of clothing. Kids play tennis at Forest Hills West Side Tennis Club, famous for its strict all-white dress code. Esquire went so far as to proclaim this "the Summer of Sleaze," pointing to celebs dressing like "high-school drug dealers." I also really dislike the straggly hair and scruffy, untrimmed beard look that so many men wear now to me it just looks sloppy and gross, as if even basic grooming doesnt matter to them. Just because they're known to millions of adorers still doesn't impress me with their grunge appeal, and doesn't enhance any fantasy about wanting to be in bed with them. However, the sad part is that we are now supposed to believe that such public obscenities are to be humored, or accept them for what they choose to be. A person can always change his clothes, but he can't change ugly tattoos. She wore a beautiful scarf or turtleneck sweater along with her blue jeans. I'm not saying that I think all men should be wearing gray flannel suits or that all women should be wearing Paris dresses like they did in the conformist 1950s. Take a look at television shows from the 1950s or at "Mad Men," and note how stylish people dressed when in public. It made the manufactures rich and the rest if us look like slobs. Yet, there's a librarian still waiting at the checkout counter to assist you to "do it yourself" and unlock dvd cases. One does'nt have to 'dress up' per se,but they can certainly try to dress decently/nice. Comedian Bill Maher questioned why celebrities and Democrat politicians do not address issues like the Black-on-Black crime wave in cities such as Chicago. Or darkly, is the past never to repeat, stagnating or spiraling down? What you say is true, and as a New Zealander living in the UK, my impression is that the British are more careful about what they wear and many of my compatriots have slid down the same mucky hole as some Americans. Have you noticed how horrendous women's hair styles look nowadays? In the 90s you had the start of the grunge rockers and the leftover crazy look of 80s punks, then you got into the whole gangster look from rap and hip hop. That's what I don't understand. In one image, he stands there in baggy, cornflower-blue track pants with mismatched sneakers and an unzipped cycling jersey. I went to Las Vegas (for the first and last time)for a business convention in 1990 and was staggered by how badly everyone in the casinos dressed. No, but I would except that people would dress in jeans with the shirt tucked in with a belt and nice dress shoes, is that so much to ask for? But you've got to realize that we live now in an age of post-1984 surrealism and computerized fascism. You dont have to wear athletic shoes everywhere! I wonder if the slobbiness could be a cause of a societal lack of confidence, or, the other way around, if a societal lack of confidence could be the cause of slobby appearance? I am only 16 years old, it's not only age that matters, it's intelligence and basic common sense of capitalism and aestethics. People today just don't seem to give a s*it about their appearance and the way they present themselves. Atom And its not just at the theater where folks have simply stopped trying: Offenders turn up at the Metropolitan Opera in Crocs. A nice fitted sweater or button down shirt and clean shoes, for example, goes a long way. While he was wearing a nice, flannel, striped double breasted suit, he looked ridiculous. Not only are people suffering now post-pandemic due to inflation, they are also not likely to put much emphasis on keeping up appearances, although most looked dreadful even before the pandemic began over two years ago. Being 18, I'm part of the uncaring generation and I have to admit that for years I've been a slob. People don't have any pride anymore. (please,take them, and far away if you do. Well just look how horrible their parents are today that don't even know how to raise their children right anymore these days when years ago most parents back then knew how to raise their children right. Both of my parents grew up in thrifty households, but my grandparents always made sure they and their siblings had appropriate clothing to wear to school, church, etc. No one seems interested in it anymore. Appearance is the first thing we all notice, and many people still do use that when making judgments about each other. It matches nothing of course. I see the latest Issue of GQ with the newest sportcoats from top designers and buy an identical one for pennies on the dollar.
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